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Packing Fun. Or not.

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Top left: Crying fit, face down, banging feet and all. Because he wanted to play with the very same train tracks (wooden) he insisted I pack up earlier in the day and oh yeah, I turned on the wrong Thomas episode. No, I do not want to watch this new one I maybe haven’t seen yet, Mommy, how dare you.

Bottom left: Hiding because he was upset I was taking a picture of his ridiculous fit on the floor.

Top right: Oh, wait, maybe I do want to see this Thomas episode.

Bottom right: Yes, this is interesting, I haven’t seen this one before, yes, I think I’ll sit here for  a bit and quietly watch this while Mommy packs.

 

In all reality T has actually been pretty good about the packing. He’s been insisting I pack up his trains for days and I finally got so frustrated that I put the lid on the container and taped it up. I knew better. He’s been trying to be helpful, though occasionally in his desire to be helpful he is actually un-helpful; but in a very cute way.

 

In other news, I feel as though I’m slowly loosing my mind. Will we get it all done in time? Of course! Will we be sane when it’s done? Probably not until we’ve arrived in Summerville and returned the rental trailer.

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This is happening:

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We knew that THIS:

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was happening some time this year. We did not anticipate it happening sooner, but it is. In preparing to deal with it later in the year Dave and I made the heart wrenching decision that I should apply to schools back home in Charleston to see if maybe I could do a nursing program there and have family close for support and help with T. Not surprisingly, this happened:

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Unfortunately, now there are some classes that are “too old”(!!!!!) and I now will have to retake them and a few other “new” prerequisite courses I wasn’t anticipating. This post isn’t about that frustration though, so I won’t get on that soap box…

It means that T and I are moving back to Summerville, for an indefinite amount of time. I.E. until I finish school, whenever that may be. Some of the time Dave will be out of the country, but most of it he will likely be here in sunny San Diego. This will probably be the biggest hardship we have taken on so far, for the betterment of our family’s future.

This morning I tried to explain to T what was going to be happening in the next few weeks. It went something like this:

Me: Hey buddy, what would you think about going and living near Lela and Pop Pop, Mia, Morgan and Elizabeth?

T: Well, we can go visit!! But we can’t live there, we have to come back here because San Diego is our home.

I expect I will be crying a lot the next several weeks…

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One of the coolest days ever!

Everyone has a list of events in their lives that fight for the rank “Coolest” ever; today is definitely a contender (after the birth of Tarleton, getting married, college graduation, etc).

I have always, ALWAYS wanted to fly in a bi-plane. You know, open air, old school, double wings – the type you see flying around when you’re at the beach and think,”Man, that would be so cool to get a chance to fly in one!”

(I’m almost so excited, still!, that I can hardly type coherently. I just want to squeal some more!)

A while back my awesome, super, wonderful, amazing aviator husband had to do an air show at a municipal air field in San Diego. No big deal. While there he met a gentleman who owns a plane and lives in a hangar at the air field. Yes, you read that right. At this airport people can LIVE in their hangers; and I’ve seen a few of these places, they are amazing homes! Anyhoo, in Dave’s friendly way, he made friends with this man who introduced him to some other people, one of whom owns a Stearman (bi-plane). Around Dave’s birthday he happened to be visiting his friend and while having lunch discovered that as a “gift” he was going to get a ride in the Stearman. Knowing I would be beyond green with envy he immediately started trying to figure out when I could get a ride.

Few months later here we are, and here I am writing this still giddy with excitement!

It.Was.SO.COOL!!

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Yes, I flew it for a little bit. Yes, we did loops and a maneuver called the hammer-head. I FLEW ONE OF THE LOOPS. And I squealed and laughed and yelled the whole time. 😉

It was an awesome reminder to be so appreciative of the life we have and live it to the fullest. Fear will always be a part of your life, but it will only hold you back as much as you let it.

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Merry Christmas from the Thiessens!

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This year we were lucky enough to celebrate Christmas all together and decided to have a little fun with our Christmas photo. 😉 Our good friend Stephanie was nice enough to help us out and we can not say Thank You enough for her dealing with our crazy selves!

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This year’s Santa picture is a far cry from last year’s! T was happy to tell Santa that he wanted new Thomas trains and then informed Santa that he saw Santa give the little girl before him some candy, so … where was his?

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Right after Santa came and after all the presents were unwrapped.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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It was a Thomas and Dinosaur filled Christmas for this little guy! I loved catching him playing with the new toys.

Hope you all had as much fun celebrating the Holidays with your loved ones.

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Meal Plan Monday

*FYI I backdated this post*

Yes, I realize it is Thursday but T and I are on a mini-vacay visiting family and I’ve been lazy as far as blogging goes. But that doesn’t mean I haven’t thought of plenty of things to write about! I wanted Mondays to be a weekly post of our “meal plans” that I try to do each pay period (about two weeks for us). It isn’t the easiest thing to do when your child is essentially a vegetarian and requires fresh fruits and veggies in the house. These meals only reflect my plan for Dave and I; T gets whatever fruits/veggies/starches are used in the recipe, just separated out without sauce, etc.

Obviously this week’s plan is what I’ve come up with to make for my parents and myself while I’m here.

Monday: Southern BBQ Ribs with seasoned sweet potato wedges : For this we got Southern cut beef ribs, baked them covered then added Sweet Baby Rays bbq sauce. When we put the ribs back in with bbq sauce uncovered to finish cooking, we put the potato wedges in to cook as well. I also threw in some T-Rex shaped chicken nuggets for T-Rex (who ate those, fresh raw spinach leaves and one large sweet potato wedge).

Tuesday: Salmon Florentine w/quinoa <– was the plan but after a day of shopping with my parents none of us felt much like cooking so we had random leftovers from the weekend and Monday night. 😉

Wednesday: Grilled Chicken with pesto pasta <–was the plan but T and I ended up being at my brother’s for dinner time. 😉

Thursday: Chicken Pot Pie (I will be preparing this as soon as I finish catching up with the blog!) My parents presented me with this recipe that my sister in law made a while back that they really liked…so I will be attempting to replicate it for them. I’m not going to be using frozen veggies because my father doesn’t like peas and I like using fresh veggies anyway.

Friday: Tilapia w/green beans or asparagus (again, my dad doesn’t like beans/peas/green beans)

Saturday: Shrimp fried rice – this is actually a recipe that Dave and I came up with ourselves. We pre-cook the rice, scramble the eggs once the rice is done, and sauté the veggies (peppers, zucchini, carrots, sugar snap peas, etc.) in teriyaki sauce (and add salt and pepper to taste if you wish). It will depend on whether you choose to use pre-cooked shrimp or not on when to add those to the veggie mix. (Just don’t forget that shrimp don’t take that long to cook and get chewy if you overcook them!) Once the shrimp are done, add the rice and egg in the same pan/wok you cooked the veggies and shrimp, add soy sauce to taste and mix it all up! Voila, shrimp fried rice a la Team Thiessen!

I figure I can use the un-used recipes for when I return from our mini-trip up to VA to see Dave’s parents. 🙂

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The sleeping dragon…

We’ve woken a sleeping dragon. Two of them actually. One is play doh and the other is video games.

At the beginning of the week T played with his new play doh for about 45 mins each day. 45 whole minutes!!! BY HIMSELF! Yes, I help him open the lids of the colors he wants and I check in on him regularly (play doh in our house is only played with outside of the house.) I even let him use my rolling pin because he thinks it makes play doh even cooler to play with…

But play-doh isn’t the only thing T discovered this week, he also discovered Super Mario Bros. Ok, he discovered them a couple of weeks ago when we were searching through our rather vast collection of Wii games for something he could play (i.e. an Elmo game that TEACHES while he plays – shocking how good he is at it…but I digress). I loved Mario Bros when I was younger. It was pretty much the only Nintendo games I could play and I remember whining to my parents that my brothers wouldn’t share the Nintendo with me because  by the time I could play Mario they had beaten it and thought it was boring and lame. (AND no one wanted to play Mario Kart with me because I would get REALLY upset when they beat me EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.)

Point is, I get T’s new infatuation. I get it. But it has become somewhat of an obsession, overnight. And that worries Dave and me. I’m talking “NOOOO I can’t go to sleep because we need to save the princess” kind of fits. “NOOOOOO I don’t want to stop playing and do something else.” But here’s the thing – T isn’t the one playing, I am. The game is essentially Super Mario Bros but newer and more complicated and more computerized. You hold the Wii remote as you would the old school remote and that does make it easier for a 3 year old, but the fact remains that the game is above his level. (Elmo isn’t!!) So Mommy plays. Mommy has calluses forming on her thumbs because she hasn’t played video games in so long. Mommy has been giving in to playing for 30 minute stretches because that old obsessive “must.beat.this.level.before.I.stop.” has kicked in. (I’m not joking about how much I loved playing Mario…)

Playing games with your child is good. But we’ve been really happy with how well rounded Teddy has been, naturally, with the things he enjoys doing. He loves being outside, getting a little dirty, helping in everything we do, building blocks, etc. He loves his LeapPad, but has *on his own* stopped playing and gone to do something else non-computerized.

Yesterday evening after I decided my thumbs couldn’t take any more, I decided that we would simply have to create new boundaries with this new “video game” discovery. I figure, if we start from now, he’ll learn from now that sitting all day long trying to beat a video game is not okay.

This all started when I remember we had all these games and Dave found a racing car one and got obsessed for a few days and T played with him a few times. T-Rex asked for the race car game and we found a Cars one but that was too hard and then he saw this colorful Mario one…and I thought, well Mario is harmless (as far as bad words and violence go) so why not (because I LOVED Mario so much as a kid) and now…ugh.

He’s not awake yet and I just know the first thing he’s going to say after “Good Morning” is “Mommy we have to beat the monster and save the princess!!”

*Update: he woke up almost exactly as I typed that and said: “I woke up mommy. Can we play Mario and save the princess now?”

Oy.

Mario Time!

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T-Rex’s 3rd Birthday Party!

For every birthday party I can remember, my mother would display pictures from birth through whatever age I was celebrating. In my teenage years it used to embarrass me. As I was preparing for T’s party I found myself considering this tradition. When I came across these four $1/each wooden frames at Michael’s I knew it meant I had to do it: whether I will display pictures for every birthday I don’t know – but I loved painting the frames to match the color scheme and looking for pictures to display…even if I was printing two out and putting them in the frames as the first guests arrived!

Tarleton’s first birthday was Winnie the Pooh themed; partially because one of his nicknames is Teddy Bear and partially because Winnie the Pooh is my favorite little cartoon character. His second birthday was Thomas the Train themed due to his, then, new found love/obsession for all things Thomas the Train. (He still loves Thomas, but it’s less of an obsession – i.e. we are able to watch other shows besides Thomas and he plays with a more variety of toys now, thankfully!) This year as we realized that Dave was truly going to be HOME with us for the first time to celebrate T’s life – we knew we had to a dinosaur theme. Shortly after Dave returned from his first deployment and met Tarleton, he dubbed him T-Rex. So, there you go, the background to the party theme and basis for my over-Pinteresting to find cute, fun dinosaur party ideas.:-)

I found these inflatable dinosaurs (there were five of them in the front “garden area”) and in my decoration searching had seen a similar set up with a similar sign. It was just too cute to not do! As luck would have it, while I was preparing to create or find invitations and decorations to use, one of my best friends from high school sent out a FB post about her new company, ThinkRSVP, she started with her two college best friends. You can see why it was a no-brainer to help a friend out and get a quality product and some amazing customer service!

  

After finding a picture of a watermelon cut similarly to the T-Rex head above, I convinced Dave that he had plenty enough artistic talent to create a T-Rex head. 🙂 He sure came through didn’t he? AND the original picture he based this off of used toothpicks for teeth! We didn’t think that was safe for poky little hands so Dave managed to make teeth just fine with the watermelon. Makes his better in my book! I had to have a sweets table with “Prehistoric Cave Crystals”, Sweet Gummi Dinosaurs and chocolatey “Dino eggs” – the leftovers of which have been great potty training/good behavior bribing tools!

There was a “Water Hole” with waterfall, dino ball toss game and volcano slide; “Dino Dig Hole” full of dinosaur fossils to find (Birthday boy wanted to uncover and recover ALL of them before any friends could); and “Discovery Base Camp” (that picture was pre-party and taken by me- the hammock was enjoyed mostly by the adults of the party and we were encouraged to keep the burlap shade cloths!) The pool was a birthday gift from Lela & PopPop (my parents) and the “dig table” a gift from Grandma & Grandpa (Dave’s parents). Both have gotten a lot of use both pre and post party!

 

The kiddos painted dino sun catchers, pretended to be roaring dinosaurs with these foam masks I found online and each took a picture as the “Cave-kid” caught by the friendly T-Rex. I love this picture of K, one of T’s friends getting into the silliness as Birthday boy takes his turn in the photo-op.

I found a Wilton cake mold for this cute T-Rex cake and decided to do the cake myself this year. This task reminded me why, as much as I love to be creative and decorative, I enjoy letting someone else do the work for me! My cousin got T a cute set of dinosaurs to play with and they came with palm trees and volcanos so I “stole” a few to use as decorations around the cake. Though it took a couple of days, I was really proud of the way it came out. And, most importantly, T loved it! He also enjoyed singing Happy Birthday to himself along with every one else, which was super cute.

When all was said and done, the stress I put on myself to make this day as wonderful, magical, perfect as it possibly could be for our special T-Rex was probably more than I needed to, but it really felt as though I was planning his very first Birthday party. For us, this was a first we were celebrating together, the way everyone hopes to celebrate on the day their son or daughter is born, the way we weren’t able to that day. T’s birthday and birthday party-day were two of the best days of my life and though I’m sure he may not remember it when he’s 13- Dave and I will.

Thank you to everyone who made it out to celebrate with Tarleton and us. We appreciate you helping make it special! For all of you who would have loved to have been there, you were in spirit. 🙂 Traveling isn’t easy these days, we understand! Thank you Steph for taking pictures for me, Sarah for staying up late chatting with me on FB about ideas and Stacey for putting together such a cute decoration packet (and all the times I asked for changes or extras!!)

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Tarleton turns 3!

It seems only appropriate to “restart” our family blog with our first post being about T’s birthday! It was about as wonderful as a day could be as we celebrated his birth-day for the very first time as a family of three physically in the same place! Dave had overnight duty the day before which granted him a day off on T’s birthday – a rare stroke of luck for our little family. After brunch at one of our favorite places we were going to go check out a children’s museum, however, once T heard the word “museum” he immediately got excited about seeing the “Train Museum” (aka the Model Train Museum at Balboa Park). We asked if that was where he wanted to go and he said YES! so we had to go, of course!

Last Day as a 2 year old!

Good Morning 3 year old! (“Really, Mom?”)

Ms. Jenn (our friend and neighbor) left a surprise message for T!

Favorite train at the museum? Thomas, of course!

Daddy helping T get a better view.

We had a great time following trains and talking to the volunteers who run the trains. Most importantly, T had a blast!

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